The Vietnamese Woman - Asia's Biggest Mystery?

Great looks but a impure heart, a racing and restless mind and a ungrounded prudish body. No sex before marriage unless they are more open minded, no hugs even after a few dates, mistrust and a harsh tone. So these are these super gentle beings everyone speaks about? That are far from submissive and far from the picture the media tells you.

If a woman was to be a treasure box what would you want to find?

Are they all the same?

No, actually not. I had the luck to meet two gentle, sweet vietnamese girls but all the others were exactly as I told you and above all, aggressive! and loud and easily intimidated by my presence. I have been with so many females that I have become super uncompromising. I got my non negotiables, especially considering the fact that I am underappreciated man that works harder than everyone else! More about that in the far future!

So I actually got asked out by a girl here, which is super rare. It takes more than good looks. It takes you being so comfortable in your own skin that she relaxes around you so much that it will feel like she's known you for quiet some time.

The biggest turn off for me

Vietnamese females aren't that expressive. That's just disgusting. I will get bored fast. I got ADHD, so if that isn't stimulated I am outta there! I had to leave many girls because they simply just failed to behave.

Don't be that guy

Dating a vietnamese females and flexing while in reality you can't get laid back home or anywhere else. Humble yourself. All the dudes I've seen with vietnamese girls, were with gold diggers, rude vietnamese females and just passport females. I haven't seen one with a traditional one. Well now guess who met a traditional one, super gentle and soft? Yeah no other than the king himself. The other one was the exact opposite. Disgusting creature!

Have standards so vietnamese women don't bother you

Build confidence in yourself and become a real man that doesn't get played. Vietnamese women are stingy. They will try playing you and they are terrible at it but they think they are great at it. Ranging from narcissism to a overly exploited self image, to straight up rudeness to men, they got it all.

Why are vietnamese women so rude?

I don't blame them. Their men are weak, arrogant and need constant babysitting. The financial situation in the country forces women to live with their parents until they find a husband and the men are over smiling Napoleon complexes.

Awaken the femininity in her

Well, how? Vietnamese women like all women who are used to momma boys that lack authentic masculinity will always either react angry or confused to you or want you so much that they can't get enough of you. So how do you awaken femininity in a woman that's basically used to date clowns? I think there is plenty of people that can answer that for you:) I'm not a dating coach. I'm a social and dating dynamics coach.

How to date here

Be patient. That's the number 1 thing! Be gentle and most importantly, take things slow! Flirting isn't too much of a thing here, except if they sense that you got loads of money in your pocket. Hugs and kisses have to wait. 3 dates at least possibly. Vietnamese women are very shy and careful. It's not like in the US, or Italy, Spain, Portugal or Argentina. The women here, as terrible as many are here, the girls on the countryside are different and some of them are real gems!

Why a vietnamese woman or girl might be right for you

If you have loads of experience with women and girls already, as I do and you're kinda done with that for some time, then taking things super slow might just be the right thing for you!

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