World Travel Adventures: The Jungle of Unexpected Experiences
- creativejourney999
- Jan 29
- 5 min read
Updated: Feb 1
Do you ever know what's next when travelling? No. One second you are alone, the second you are having sex with someone, then you get drunk, the next day the same might happen, on another day you are hiking up a mountain, then you are alone for a few days, then you meet people again. Then all the sudden you make local friends, eat some local food that tourists don't even know about. This is the beauty of travelling, you never know whom you are gonna meet next. And it's not always good experiences.
But see, travelling comes with up & downs, it comes with unexpected moments. It comes with ignoring people at tables you used to sit at, to get things that are way better. For some reason, my life just recently, 2 days before launching my website underwent a massive transformation. Every day felt kinda like in a movie, exponentially more. To the point where I was like, "This ain't happening? ' or is it?
But here's the funny thing...
Before that, everything went right for like 1 week straight. Then I get these news. I'm like "Get outta here!" Every day something crazy or unexpected or beautiful happened & then wednesday this week... Nothing... But then I met these two funny Korean guys from Seoul & Busan. The dude from Seoul starts talking to me & within a minute we start laughing hilariously. After the conversation ended (like 20 minutes later). I was like "This needs to go into my next blog post!" How is it possible that strangers laugh upon meeting so much & that we get along immediately. See, Korea loves the US & what these guys didn't know is that I am part japanese:) The asian connection:) These could easily become a hollywood inspired asian movie with many asian villains:) I would pay at least 50 bucks to watch that!
But how's your Travelling Life?
You wake up & you feel excited right? You glow with excitement & even the night before you're like "I can't wait for the next day to start!" YOU WISH!
How your travelling life probably looks like...
Or like this...
And like this...
OCD in the travelling context means "Oh, I need to meet people all the time"
Really? Speak for yourself! :) I learned way more about myself by being alone & through hardship. By spending time with others I learned what I don't want!
I didn't want
Average people
Average conversations
Drinking
Weed
People that get along with everyone
Women & girls that don't know what they want
Women & girls that play games
Women & girls that hesitate
Dudes acting tough
Loud people
It took a while, but the people I intended to hang out with, they showed up.
Police Officers
Elite Soldiers
Fighters
Guys that are comfortable in their skin
Girls that have a warmth to them
Guys that are leaders NOT followers
Introverted people
Girls that know what they want & they go after it
Insightful conversations
People with Status
But how so...
It all started with a decision!After having met lots of toxic people, I was exhausted & declared sovereignty over my life! With that came tests, challenges, setbacks! Frustration & a lot of anger! A lot of reflection & journaling! & Observing people from a totally different perspective!
I decided to fight back...
But not physically...
Mentally & emotionally! & By developing unbreakable boundaries!
No more hanging out with people that give me weird first impressions
No more hangout in large groups
No more saying hello to others
No more trying to fit in
No more thinking "There is someone I need to meet" (my biggest former pet peeve)
No more looking around
No more talking to people that are NOT from my culture (because it always led to problems)
No more hoping "Maybe this person is nice, even though this person is not from my culture"
No more parties
Why was I so harsh all the sudden?
Where did my naive, former self go?
It simply died!
It had to!
How many times did people start talking shit for no reason just because I'm American?
See, people believe the news, but they don't believe their heart. As soon as that was clear for me, I left the table I once used to sit at!
My Culture
The United States
Japan
China
Vietnam
Mexico
Hong Kong
Native Americans
Brazilians
Colombians
Poland
Korea probably too
Sweden
After having made those choices, guess what...
More energy
More drive
Increased productivity
Peace of mind
Better dating life
My New Self
It took a few years... But this new man I became is
Self Confident
Elegant
Clear about what he wants
Easy to talk to
A man of self respect
Difficult to meet
Recognizes peoples mind games
Independent
What does that mean, "Difficult to meet"?
See, most people, allow people into their space like a fly, after some time they realize how annoying the fly is. Why not do the same with people? Why not know from the beginning who is gonna annoy you, so the fly can't even enter your space?!
It's because your energy field is weak!You must develop a strong energy field & declare sovereignty & peace over your life & whom you are willing to allow into your space & whom not! Trust me! , people will feel it! That's how I started more than 1 year ago & it paid off. I realized how boring & taking most people are!
I realized how much more I need me! than I need them!
So "Difficult to meet" means
"This guy has his own rules, this guy respects himself & he is not a follower, I can't manipulate him"
Guess what, many people don't wanna play by my rules, they wanna decide:) But I don't let them, NOT ANYMORE. In a room full of clowns... Be a lion! Stand proud, stand tall & be confident & believe in yourself! Entertain yourself & meet people from the opposite sex OUTSIDE accomodations. You can meet them anywhere!
The manipulative agendas of people
See most people wanna always have some level of manipulation in their relations-ships. Subconsciously of course! I've seen that many times while travelling. The moment I see that, I walk away, but I won't dive into that today, but I will so in the future.
Thanks for reading.
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