How to spot signs of Insecurity in people - Exposing Evil

You can never be a good person as long as you are insecure. Every insecure person is a bad person. I will explain why.

If you are insecure:

• You will sabotage relation-ships

• You will sabotage friendships

• You will not be able to express your authentic self

• You will have no success in business or in your dating life

• Your financial life will not be the one you wish to have

• You will likely meet insecure people while travelling & not attract a peaceful travel experience

I remember when I met a dude from Hong Kong in Vietnam. He owns a shisha lounge & he couldn't even hold eye contact with me but in the end (when I left his shisha lounge), he showed his authentic self. He looked at me with anger. See, people have a tendency to reserve that for the right moments. They won't usually show you that side immediately. It's scary what people hide from each other.

Phrases insecure people use are:

• "Ok, enlighten me"

• "Up to you"

• "Yeah you can think that"

• "Yeah, that might be right"

• "What study backs this up?"

  
  

Just to mention a few, there is way more of course!

When entering a room always check, who's your enemy first. I like entering rooms, scanning for insecurities in people. The easiest to detect? The fake alpha males. They get stiff & tense. Some people hate people with guts!

How to protect your peace against such people?

So, lets say you are travelling & you are staying in a hostel. Before you even enter, honestly, pray & then declare your sovereignty. Write it down on a piece of paper... What type of people you intend to talk to, don't write down what people you intend to ignore...

Have faith! - Your circle will improve

Everything starts with a decision!

You must be committed. If you ain't committed, what are you gonna do? Exactly, repeat the same patterns! Make sure that doesn't happen. "Oh I need people" Detach from the belief in the first place & that's when things shift! You need God, yourself & peace. Nuff said!

How people turn evil & insecure

• Toxic environments

• Bad parenting

• Neglect in childhood

Long story short... How do I know all of this? You think psychology will teach you how to destroy evil people? No, but I will:)

How I collected all of my psychological knowledge

Sitting at the right place at the right time and just listening. Talking to lots of toxic people pretending to not notice their mind games and giving them the illusion that they are in control.

Confidence - The Trigger

Sometimes when talking to people they start going into the narcissistic stare for no reason or they say things about themselves but attributing it to you (projecting). The moment you see that: RUN! There is only two options, either you destroy them or you run. Don't give them compassion, that's only gonna be fuel for them to continue with their behavior.

The people that will most likely disturb your peace

Ok, lets's get a little bit statistical. I love statistics! These days I'd say 8\10 people will disturb your peace. People hate each other so much these days... People are more narcissistic than ever. They escape their miserable lives by drinking, partying & staying up late. What better way to do that when travelling? A narcissists dream. The ability to numb his emotions all the time & rush from place to place & from dopamine rush to dopamine rush. But let me get something straight, seeking constant novelty does NOT make you narcissistic but you gotta focus on the main symptoms of narcissism & also on the lesser known ones & view them in a big picture.

After years of travelling I can statistically precisely tell you that these are the people that will disturb your peace almost always:

• Men from Denmark

• Women from Finnland

• Men from Malaysia

• German Women

• Women & Men from the Czech Republic

• People from Kazachstan

• People from Turkey

• Koreans

• Taiwanese people but definitely not all

• Canadians

• People from Australia

• Irish people

• Bulgarian people

• Romanian people

• Greek people

• Croatian people

• Iranian people

Now you must be wondering, why the heck are british people not on the list... Man, my experience with brits is rather good, lol. Nuff said. Oh, Americans are not on the list? Correct:) We don't cause chaos, we end it:) You will likely see us help people instead of being helped, but even receiving help comes easy for us. So from all people who are the most annoying??? There is no right answer, but there is my answer. Danish dudes, German women & number 1 spot goes to turkish people & Greek people!!! I don't like posers & all of these countries have posers!

So who sets the example of behaviour?

These countries...

America - The Symbol of Confidence

Honor & Authority - Welcome To Japan!

Chinese army wearing Serbian military uniform

The big three...

Bonuses:

The Philippines

Honorable mentions:

Taiwan

Man, how did I almost forget that... I was about to finish the blog post... But dude...

MACEDONIA!!!

& Vietnam (I grew up with vietnamese neighbors)

& Portugal

But what's the number one country that behaves in a way I consider gross?

Italy. Nuff said. Why? That will be covered in a separate article.

Ok, now The article ist complete!

In the next article I will go into the unknown or lesser known signs of narcissism.

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