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Phrases to say to rude hosts

Ready? Let's get straight into it! Some hosts are nice yeah, but many hosts I met are simply not & to combat that rudeness I will share with you things you can say to them so they will never be rude again!






Man in business suit making a phone call
This is what it looks like when a narcissist panicks!

Look at his lips... They signal fear & this is the exact fear I intend you put into narcissists!


Anyway!



The Phrases:



  • "I see, you are used to talk to people that way right?

  • "You been bullied before?"

  • "It seems like you are unhappy with your life - I never met a happy person that was rude"

  • "Customer service doesn't seem to matter to you"

  • "Do these mind games usually work on people?"

  • "You are power hungry! Didn't your parents raise you well?"



There is way more stuff you could say



But why do these phrases work?



You hit him where it hurts:



HIS EGO



See, hostel owners are used to be in charge, as are managers or serious entrepreneurs, but these guys seek these jobs usually to escape their father wound. What is the father wound? Well, you know that feeling when you meet a powerful man & you feel powerless in his presence because you sense that he is a man & you ain't, or if you are a woman reading this, you sense that he is masculine & your playing hard to get & other shit doesn't work on him? Yeah, that type of guy.



So these type of guys will wreck some narcissists ego anytime. We don't play by a hosts rule if we see that he is behaving rude. Another american (well, half american half German haha), that I met in Spain, (Hostel Owner), was rude so I've put him in his place. You think I don't put other Americans in their place too? Lol, you're wrong! These guys are not real leaders, they fake it & I sense it from a mile away & it makes me angry. How could it be possible that these guys walk all over people... But then they meet me & realize that there is people with self esteem:)



Narcissists hate losing control, so if you say these things, prepare yourself to see the worst in people!



What will likely happen after you say these phrases



  • He will get aggressive

  • He will threaten you

  • He will get scared

  • He will start to avoid you



Whatever happens, just leave the accommodation & report him & leave a bad review. Fighting is not worth it. Protect your peace!


Thanks for reading.



Spread the word & lets show people together how to become a real traveller. If not happened already, read my first blog post!

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